I forget who I was playing at the time, or who the character in question was, but there was an incident where my character had reservations about another character who expressed a clear interest in joining. I spoke at length IC to him, and it was determined that he would work to alleviate some of the concerns. I informed him OOCly of the two-week limit on our interactions, and he stated OOCly that he was fine with putting in the effort to be legitimately inducted.
However, two days later, he started whining to me OOCly and the staff OOCly that he wasn't already inducted. That pissed me off so badly.
Two weeks seems generous enough for the cabal or tribunal to make a decision, to me. It's enough time to vet someone who's actively interested. But I don't think you need to be so blatant, either. The onus, in my opinion, is on the cabal or tribunal.
Oh, hey, this dude's hanging out with us a lot. Maybe he's interested in joining the group. Let's ask him!Toji's right about the way it used to be, and honestly I think it was -better- in some regards then. Joining a faction was a privilege, not a right, and you had to earn your way in by merit. The whole recruitment process was on the shoulders of the leadership, and outright asking meant that the potential member was less likely to be invited. (Aerlyn got ignored by the Harlequin because she called the leader out after FOUR MONTHS of trying to sneak her way in, and then she was invited into the Adepts, which completely threw me off guard.) Now, it's (mostly) different, but I think there's room for give and take.
Both parties are partially responsible.