Erevan wrote:
I do not believe the cohort's exemplar/master needs to be obvious to others in any way.
If the cohort or exemplar want it to be known, they will put it in their title. If not, it can be as secret as they want. I'd say avoid systemization of who's cohort is who, and let RP take care of it.
To continue the original example, right now anyone can claim to be the follower of Slayne, but no one would believe him. I think that there ought to be some way you can prove your affiliation if you want. Maybe exemplars can make a neck slot item that only the cohort can wear. And what if it was the item that provided the exemplar bonuses? (which still only function while your exemplar is in the realm) Just brainstorming here.
Also on the topic of whether or not your bond is permanent, I'd expect there to be some way to terminate it, but that it would make your next cohort bond be weaker. I think picking your exemplar is not a choice you should make lightly.