I shortened and altered the original post a bit.
Minette wrote:
How to enjoy the game more?
- Play the game as is. Understand there is roleplay in SK, with or without you seeing it. If someone doesn't talk, assume they are silent. There is no foul if someone wants your shoes and killed you for it.
Perception is everything. Many characters are indeed misunderstood and the players accused of not playing the game correctly (abusing OOC info, usually). But that's precisely what I'm hoping to see here - is there are
incorrect way to play SK? Is it fine for a character to consistently and constantly kill others for equipment, if alignment allows? If everyone were to do that, this would be a VERY boring game, even if we all understood that it makes IC sense. There's a conflict between what makes sense in the game and what's fun out of the game, which is why some players get frustrated at a character like Divalni. Divalni wasn't fun for them, because all they ever saw was a batch of arrows. Others had great experiences probably because they didn't have to face that side of him.
Minette wrote:
- Disattach from any out of character medium completely. Don't talk to nobody outside the game about the game, don't read logs which would in turn reveal in character incdients, characters and so on.
Another conflict between what's fun OOC and what's good for you IC. There are certain aspects to the game that aren't fun to know nothing about. How and where to level, for example. That's what a lot of people are looking for. Some people feel that cabal skills and religious spells are required knowledge for them to fully enjoy the game - but it reduces the necessity for IC communication and, as you noted, ruins secrecy. Our own minds betray us in that regard. An experienced player knows all of these things already, and thus must learn how to separate his/her knowledge ICly, and OOCly. With time, this gets to be a drag - it's not an enjoyable aspect of playing, to continually pretend you don't know about a relatively minor feature of the game. Thus, people do away with it by freeing up that information.
Talking to other players is a huge part of the game, for me. I enjoy the community as much as I enjoy the game, and for a smaller game like this, it's completely necessary for long-term survival. Anonymity is a double-edged blade. You're less likely to bend the rules, to stay IC, but the OOC enjoyment can be reduced by the simple virtue of not chatting with people. Hell, how many people have gotten married through SK, now? Guys like Sinnoch may decry that aspect to the game, but it's a positive thing, even if it has its downsides - such as favoritism, abuse of information, mechanics, and so on.