dufelt wrote:
I've read the help text on alignment so I know that alignments are just for guidance and not supposed to be a finite list of behaviours that your character should or shouldn't exhibit.
You are right, this is a guideline. A somewhat stricter guideline in some sense though as the pbase has a habit of getting up in arms over some things and reporting/complaining about them and completely ignores others. There is a lot of room for interpretation and it can be done still adhering to these guidelines and creating something unique without losing the notion of good vs. evil.
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Is it still considered bad rp for darkies to try to roleplay being all nice, or for lighties to try to rp having a dark side?
My opinion? Yes and no. It really depends on how you go about it. I find it acceptable for lighties to have a darker side if it is akin to their "fatal flaw" in the sense that throughout the life of their character we see it as a struggle that takes place. A scrupulous character, for example, could be so because they have from time to time and continue to fall victim to desires for vengeance and death despite their moral conflict with it. They feel guilt over their actions and pray to their Lord or confide in a friend or whatever to show that simply killing for the sake of killing is unacceptable and they recognize that in some fashion, yet have trouble holding back.
As to darkies well, they have historically been given a bit more free reign in this area than lighties. But I don't think it should be taken too far. I find it acceptable to trick someone into thinking you are their friend and then using them. But this cannot exist for the life of the character in my mind, there has to be a point in a daibolic character's mind where there is that break from all possibilities of niceness. Where they can no longer hide their nature.
both of these concepts though are evolutionary. Things that happen and are built up over the course of an individual's life.
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Why then, do I meet darkies that take exception to me treating them with disdain? (and I include OOCly here, not just their character understandably ICly miffed when I won't resurrect them)
I agree with jenbbo on this one, because they are whiney little [REDACTED]. As prominant darkie(ish) priest I have had all kind of people ask for rezzes. When it is someone I don't know I try to figure out if they are light aura'd because she will deny them. And I have had people get very angry with me for this. Telling me how I should RP my character, that it is more proper for a darkie priest to revel in tainting the heart of a lightie through a rezz. But she feels the exact opposite. She has tried her damndest to keep those who are light of heart away from darkness to preserve the balance. This isn't her being nice, and I believe the only interaction my character and your's have had is because of a rezz she denied.
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Why do I also meet darkies asking me how to 'change their heart'? (something I thought was plainly not possible, with the advice from IMMs to simply delete and start-over with the alignment they *do* want)
It is most likely never going to happen and I do not really like the whole redemption RP angle to be honest. It could be a fake out, I've seen it used to get a rezz and generally that is where it ends. There is another angle as well, and that has more to do with you being a Zavijah priest than a lightie and that is the notion of enlightenment. As the faith stands it is lightie only and the concept is mainly that those of a dark heart simply can never reach a true state of enlightenment, so perhaps those darkies are seeking something more akin to that, but through other means rather than seeking a true change of heart.
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...and why do I see lighties being far too friendly with darkies that are overtly dark?
This is because they suck at RP and only want to PK and therefore want to make sure they are if not on friendly terms, at least good terms with anyone who can get them good loot. (This is a broad and probably somewhat baseless generalization. But I see it happen a ton and not just between PC's. I've seen lighties perform dark themed quests to get loot) I'll call myself out on this one though, Thyki (aberrant priestess) considered Yuni (paladin of dulrik) a very good friend. This was based on mutual respect of one another and a valuing of the other's opinions. They never fought as a team, had Yuni ever asked for a rezz or any other prayer (which he never did) she would have refused. But they would sit in Nerina and discuss politics, religion whatever for hours. They disagreed on a lot of things and would argue about it. The point is though, they knew should they need to take up arms against one another they would, but the relationship was one of mutual respect and honor, seeing the other as an equal. This is the sort of relationship that I can see developing between hellions and paladins and I personally find it acceptable. I suspect this is not exactly what you mean by overtly dark and being friendly, but it's there for what it is worth.
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I'm genuinely looking for advice on how to better roleplay my character as at the moment, I seem to be at odds with some players and I'd like to resolve this.
As to this part, if darkies are offended by your character not wishing to spend time talking to them or helping them, they need to suck it up. Hell, even the lighties you might find offense with. I know Thyki doesn't help every darkie that comes along just because they are dark. She has her own standards and she will stick to them. If players cannot handle how you RP your character and you are adhering to your alignment, they are the ones with the problem, not you.
And with that long tirade over, there are few exceptions to what I stated and they generally sum up to player count. If I am the only priest in the realms and it is a lightie (lowbie) who is dead, and I have sent up a prayer with no response and they have waited around for a while, I will help guide them through the oracle. I try to be a considerate player as much as adhering to her RP. I will also, with the consent of both parties bear witness to paladin/hellion duals and offer prayers for the loser if they do not have their own priest handy. These are my two major exceptions.